Tuesday, September 24, 2019

LIFE GETS HECTIC!




When I started back writing my blog after a long hiatus, I made the statement that at times I would use my blog as a journal to record some moments of my life (well…I said “something” like that).  At any rate, that’s what this post will be, so if you don’t want to read it, that’s understandable…it’s also A-OK.  I promise not to get mad๐Ÿ˜Š

My life for the last two weeks has been filled with drama, upset, craziness, death, medical situations…well, let’s just say LIFE HAS BEEN TOTALLY HECTIC!  And I haven’t enjoyed it one bit...well, maybe some parts of it.

My niece (my younger sister’s only child) who is 24 had surgery for cancer twice in one week…once to remove cancerous lymph nodes, the second to take care of a complication.  She also had cancer surgery a year ago.  My sister is divorced, so I’ve tried to be a strong support system for her.  It’s hard to know the right words to say to give someone hope and encouragement
with something like this.  (If you are a praying person, I'm sure my niece and sister would appreciate any prayers you might have time for.  If you do not pray, good thoughts sent their way would be great.)




There has also been some drama in a part of my family which I won’t discuss here, but family drama is the worst kind!  I am so thankful for my little family here that is filled with love.  Even though we might not always agree with each other, we still love and respect each other.  I am just trying to stay out of the drama myself and praying for all concerned.

I lost one of my cousins and attended her funeral.  Her death was a blessing for her but so hard on her 8 sisters and 1 brother.


I have also been quite upset at the death of one of my very best friends.  If you have never read any of my posts about THE VALLEY GIRLS, you need to read THIS POST.  The Valley Girls are/were a group of 9 of us who graduated from high school together and have remained long-time friends.  We take “girlfriend trips” each year.  Sadly, we lost one of us this past week and my heart is broken. 

Valley Girl JOAN

Joan was the LOUDEST & FIERCEST one of us 9.  Her laughter was contagious…and loud๐Ÿ˜Š  Joanie had cancer but we really thought she was beating it, then it took a turn for the worse and just went like wild fire.  I (along with 3 other VGs) was blessed to get to go see her a few days before she gained her wings, although she was so sedated that she didn’t know we were there…but we knew we were there. 

We celebrated her life yesterday, and what a celebration it was.  She requested no one wear black, but bright colors instead.  Although Joan was a spiritual person, she only wanted ROCK MUSIC, not sad funeral hymns.  And her ashes were placed in a wooden wine box!  That’s our Joanie…very unconventional.  The Valley Girls are now 8, but we will always be 9 in spirit.  And although we will miss her on our future trips, we will feel her presence no matter where we go.  Rest in peace, sweet Joanie, and dance away with your husband who was waiting for you.


I have also been involved with:
*working with our local high school to re-introduce ART into our schools

*training for our high school’s Governance Team that I was asked to be a part of
*being taxi cab service when my granddaughter needs it

*helping teach Sunday School
*trying to keep up with my exercise program
Not me...don't I wish!!!

*volunteering at the Christian Kitchen
*going to middle school football games to support my cheerleader granddaughter
Granddaughter top far right:)

And, last but not least,
*trying to keep up with “wifely” stuff to keep my sweet & understanding husband happy.

Yes, life has been quite hectic.  But no matter how busy or crazy or difficult life is, every day is still a blessing. 

Every day is a gift; untie the ribbons.




16 comments:

  1. Sounds like you have had quite a time of it lately. Sending prayers for you and all who need them in your life.. Sorry about your friend,,
    Hugs
    Deb

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    1. Thank you so much for stopping by, Debbie. I so appreciate any and all prayers.

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  2. I am so, so sorry for all the loss and illness that you have been facing. No matter how much we try to avoid that sort of thing, we just can't. I am also sorry for the drama. I do my best to avoid that stuff. And, there is always that one family member that makes dealing with drama a tad worse, usually they are the drama. Take care, keep Joan in your heart and love on hubby.

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    1. Thanks so much for stopping by to chat, Pam. It's always a blessing to have someone to share with:)

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  3. I am SO sorry for the loss and sickness, prayers coming your way! I always read every word and like to keep up with what's going on. I also use my blog as a journal:) Have a blessed day dear friend, HUGS!

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    1. Thank you, Theresa, for being such a faithful follower. I am thankful that I love to write and that I've made friends with others who do also. Thanks for any and all prayers!!!

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  5. Prayers for you Cheri I know this is a sad and discouraging time for you. The comforting thing is that our heavenly Father knows our pain and He cares. Well wishes and love to you and your family.
    xx Beca

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    1. Beca, you are so right. I would be totally lost with my heavenly Father. He is what gets us through the valleys of life:)

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  6. Cheri, it certainly has been a rough time and a busy time. My goodness. I am sending prayers and warm thoughts to you and everyone around you who needs them. I use my blog as a journal of sorts, too. After all, it's a personal space and writing can help. And I love your little stress buster cartoon. I need to peek at it a little more carefully.

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    1. Thanks, Kim...warm thoughts and especially prayers are always welcome. Hopefully life will settle down for awhile at least:)

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  7. Well, bless your heart, I can't do "hectic" for very long without it catching up with me. But, sometimes it cannot be avoided. Your wagon has been loaded with some heavy stuff, praying things will ease up real soon. Sending hugs your way!

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    1. Thanks so much, Lea. Life is certainly a roller coaster, but thankfully God is with us in the ups and the downs:)

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  8. I'm so sorry for your loss of your dear friend and all.the hard things you've been going through. I hope all goes well for your niece. When I think of retirement, I often wonder if I'll be busier after I quit working! I think you answered that thought!

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    1. Yaya, it's amazing how many people say they are just as busy or even busier after retirement. Since I was a teacher (which is really at least a 6 day a week job), I will say my life isn't as crazy and tiring as it used to be. HOWEVER!!! There sure has been enough (especially lately) to keep me busy & occupied! I would hate though to just have nothing to do but veg out in front of the TV and eat bonbons all day!!!!! My hips couldn't stand it!!!

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  9. Let's enjoy wonderful days in autumn.

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