At
the end of January I posted about my aunt Macy & uncle Dick who have
occupied a large piece of my heart since I was born. (You can read that post here.) At the time of my post my aunt was in the
hospital after suffering a brain bleed.
With a very heavy heart, I now have to write that we lost Macy last
week. She was laid to rest on Sunday
with standing room only in the church.
This
is such a huge loss for all of my family, including my uncle & their
daughter, my mother (Macy was her last living sibling), and my many
cousins. I can honestly tell you that if
you had had the privilege of knowing Macy you would have loved her….everybody
that knew her did. She was truly one of
the gentlest souls you could ever encounter.
She was extremely dedicated to her family, especially my uncle to whom
she was married for 67 years. To me and
all who have known my aunt and uncle, their marriage has always been the most
outstanding example of the kind of Christian marriage that God intended. I don’t know if they ever even had an
argument. They found such joy in each
other, in their children and grandchildren, and in their many nieces and
nephews. They made each of us feel so
very special in our own individual way.
The
world will not be nearly as sweet without Macy in it, and I know my uncle is
going to have a huge adjustment not being able to see and talk to his “baby” on
this earth ever again. I don’t think he
will ever again find true happiness until he is reunited with her in
heaven. Dick has always been such a
blessing to me in my life, someone I have always adored and looked up to, so my
heart just aches for him. He will now
have to make some decisions for his own future, and I am praying each day that
God will guide him and Lori to make necessary changes that will bring him
peace.
Thank
you to any of you who said even one prayer for these precious people. It was time for God to take her home, but our
family surely will feel the void. Thank
you, God, for giving me such a wonderful aunt and uncle to bless my life in so
many ways.
Rest
in peace, Macy, and enjoy your new heavenly home with your mama & daddy,
your precious son who went on before you, and your brothers & sisters that
were waiting for you. We will look after
Dick and love him for you until God joins you together once again. I love you so much and will miss you
terribly, but I know Heaven is just a little more beautiful with your arrival.
Oh Cheri- I am so very sorry for your loss. I had two wonderful aunts that loved me even when I didn't deserve it so I know a bit of your loss. Now you will have to bolster your uncle up and love him so he can find a path ahead of him that is worth living.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you- praying for you, your family and especially your uncle. xo Diana
Thank you so much, Diana.
DeleteI am SO sorry to hear this but know that she is in Heaven and no longer suffering. Sending hugs and continued prayers to you and your family🙏🏼
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Theresa. She is definitely in Heaven and it is so much sweeter because she's there:)
DeleteI am so very sorry for your loss and pain! It sounds like Macy was wonderful and It sounds like the world lost a very special spirit. Prayers are going out for your family and yourself. Hugs during this hard time.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Ann, for such a sweet comment. It means a lot.
DeleteThis is a beautiful tribute, Cheri, and I am so very sorry for your loss. I send you wishes for peace and healing.
ReplyDeleteJeanie, thank you so much. All prayers are appreciated.
DeleteI'm so very sorry for your loss. She radiates warmth in the photo you shared. I can imagine that it will be a difficult time for your family but I know you will be a big help to your dear Uncle. I will continue to say prayers for him. I'm sure his lovely wife is watching over him from above too.
ReplyDeleteYaya, thank you for such a sweet comment. It still hurts but I know she's in a better place. Thank you for prayers.
DeleteOh, I am so very sorry. That just breaks my heart. I will be praying for you all, especially your uncle. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteBenita, thank you so much. All prayers, especially for my uncle, are greatly appreciated. He is really struggling to find his new normal.
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