Dear
Dr. Jackson:
I
wish so very much I had written this letter earlier because sadly now you will
never read it. I was thinking of you
recently and tried to look you up through Mr. Google and was so saddened to
discover your obituary from 2013. I still
want to write you, however, and maybe somehow the words will float up to Heaven
where I am sure you are carrying on very academic conversations with the
angels.
I
was recently asked who was the one person who most influenced my life. Of course, I couldn’t name just one person
since almost everyone we come across influences us in some way. Nevertheless, I immediately thought about you
and how you probably changed the course of my life more than anyone else. It’s been so many years ago, and you advised
so many students over the years that I’m sure you don’t remember me so let me
refresh your memory.
You
were my advisor while I attended GSC and right before I was to graduate you
called me to your office. You knew I was
graduating a quarter early with a degree in business and you advised me to take
education courses so that I could possibly teach business classes in high
school. I immediately said something to
the effect of “Thank you, but no thank you” (although I was really thinking #$@% NO!) I had no desire to teach. Well, long story short, I finally left your
office and went and signed up for those education courses! You were very persuasive, but I really did it
because I respected you and just wanted to please you.
Even
after I graduated I had no thoughts of teaching, but then what did you
do???? You got me a teaching job at a
nearby high school! I wish I could tell
you I fell in love with teaching that year but I definitely did NOT!!! I won’t take time to go into all the details,
but a couple years later I found myself teaching Remedial Reading at the primary
level (simply because it was 3 days before school started and they needed a
warm body!) And guess what! I fell in love with it!
Early
Childhood Education became my passion and I ended up teaching for 40 1/2 years
with the last 9 of those years teaching college students who were in the field
of education.
I
am thankful for every single one of those 40 ½ years, but I would never have
experienced any of them if it had not been for YOU. I truly believe that God had intended all
along for me to become a TEACHER, but since
I
wasn’t listening to what He was calling me to do, God put YOU in my path and YOU did His handiwork. And for that I will
be eternally grateful.
You
influenced my life so profoundly, and I pray that along the way I too may have
influenced some of my students in positive ways. It saddens me greatly that I never got the
chance to tell you all this in person, but maybe some day I will have the
chance. Until then, rest in peace. You will never be forgotten.
Sincerely,
A
Very Grateful Student
To
my Blogging Friends:
If
there is someone who has influenced your life in a positive way and you haven’t
taken the opportunity to thank them, don’t waste another minute. Get out that stationery and put pen to paper…or
give them a call. You will be so happy that you did. Just think…your life might not be what it is
today without the influence of someone you least expected to change the
direction of your days.
Awe! this is so sweet!
ReplyDeleteThanks. It is really bittersweet to me...he was a wonderful man who made such a huge difference in my life.
DeleteWhat a wonderful post and YES, I feel sure Dr. Jackson will see this in Heaven. SO sweet and meaningful. Have a blessed day dear friend, HUGS!
ReplyDeleteI've thought of him many times through the years. Just wish I had thought to write him a letter sooner!
DeleteWhat a lovely, lovely letter and sentiment. I totally agree...say it, don't save it, but in your case, I'm sure he knew.
ReplyDeleteIt's nice to sometimes think about all the special people who have influenced our lives.
DeleteThere are a few and yes, I need to thank them. It is hard once they are gone but you did what docs tell you to do...write that letter anyway. I have been a miss at reading blogs but thank you for still coming by my blog.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for dropping by. I definitely understand...I get so behind in reading blogs. Lately I'm having trouble keeping up with my head!!!! Busy, busy, busy!
ReplyDeleteLovely.
ReplyDeleteThank you:)
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